Any good writer will tell you that word choice is important. A good conversationalist may tell you the same thing.
I don’t consider myself either.
that girl: You might like that book over there. It seems to apply to your current situation.
the hubby: What would I like about it?
that girl: I don’t know. I haven’t read it.
the hubby: And you want me to read it?
that girl: Well, you might like it. It’s for that class.
the hubby: So you’re giving me homework? I don’t need homework.
that girl: It’s not homework. You like pleasure reading. You do pleasure reading.
the hubby: What, Playboy?
that girl: No, that’s not what I mean.
the hubby: I think you mean, “reading for pleasure.”
that girl: Whatever.